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Breast cancer survivors enjoy a day of pampering at The Spa at Pinehurst

Monday was bittersweet for Rhonda Howell.

It was her second year in a row participating in Pink in Pinehurst Day, an annual celebration of breast cancer survivors held at The Spa at Pinehurst.

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Rhonda Howell

The day of pampering at the end of each October gives women the chance to relax and rejuvenate with either a complimentary massage or facial. This year, 85 women enjoyed the treat.

Last year, Rhonda shared the day with her friend, Abby Cameron, a fellow breast cancer survivor she met through a mutual friend.

The two connected immediately when they met in 2015, shortly after Rhonda received news her cancer was back. This time, she was diagnosed with stage IV metastatic breast cancer.

“Statistics gave me 2 to 3 years to live and I had a son who was 3, he’s now 4,” Rhonda said. “It was obviously devastating to me.”

But Rhonda’s devastation turned into hope when she met Abby, who had been battling the disease on and off for nearly 15 years.

“I was just in awe of her,” she said. “She was an awesome person.”

The friends got a reprieve from their worries during last year’s Pink in Pinehurst Day, indulging in a well-deserved day of self-care complete with spa treatments, lunch and a little shopping.

“We had so much fun,” Rhoda said. “Unfortunately, Abby passed away about a month ago, but up until she died we talked about how much we enjoyed the event and how we couldn’t wait to go back to Pinehurst.

“It’s one of my favorite memories of us together.”

When Rhonda was first diagnosed with breast cancer in 2013 at the age of 34, she had a double mastectomy, underwent four rounds of IV chemotherapy and received 35 radiation treatments. This go-round, she’s been able to take an oral chemo that has fewer side effects.

“Most people don’t even know I have cancer,” Rhonda said. “They are coming out with some really amazing stuff.”

Last week, after 15 months on the oral chemo, Rhonda’s scan came back stable – a welcome piece of good news.

An unwavering friendship

Diane Authement, Christine Hughes, Meg Lindenberger, Carol Collins and Sally Bold Frick took in the crisp fall temperatures Monday from a table located on The Spa veranda. After being pampered, they ordered lunch and gathered round to share stories and laughs.

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Sally Bold Frick, Christine Hughes, Carol Collins, Meg Lindenberger and Diane Authement, pose for a photo after their spa treatments.

Their friendship continues to thrive even though their cancer is long gone.

“We all had breast cancer around the same time and we’ve all helped each other along,” Meg said.

Life gets in the way of getting together often, so they look forward to their annual reunion.

“This is once a year and it’s very special,” Meg said.

“It’s a celebration for us each year,” Diane added.

For Christine, this day was even more meaningful than most – it was the first time she’d ever talked to another breast cancer survivor about her scars.

“I had a double mastectomy in August 2014 and I’ve always thought of myself as flat and fabulous,” she said. “Getting to share our scars and talk to them about it was amazing. Where else can that happen?”

A meaningful work day

Beverly McLaughlin is one of the first faces that greets guests when they enter The Spa at Pinehurst. Her warmth and enthusiasm comes across to each person who walks through the day.

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Missy Travis, Danielle Daugherty and Beverly McLaughlin pose for a photo in between greeting guests Monday at The Spa at Pinehurst.

She looks forward to Pink in Pinehurst Day as it means more to her than many know. Beverly’s mother died at the age of 43 after battling breast cancer, so she can relate to the challenges the women face.

“I really enjoy hearing their stories,” Beverly said. “They are all so appreciative and excited about this day.”

For Beverly, breast cancer awareness is a constant goal. She wears a pin bearing a pink ribbon with wings every day and had a special patch added to her riding vest for when she goes out on her motorcycle.

Work continues

For Kerry Snyder Husted, Monday was a way to give back.

A former oncology administrator, she’s opening a unique shop in Southern Pines soon. Knickers, at 165 E. New Hampshire Ave., will feature an array of intimate apparel, including breast care forms and breast care bras for women who have been through mastectomies.

On Monday, she had a table set up with information and samples of her products. Kerry will offer free fittings as well as private appointments.

“It’s all about getting the right fit and offering the right product,” she said. “This is my passion; I’m excited to fill a need in our community.”

The Spa at Pinehurst is donating 10 percent of proceeds from local appointments held on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday during October to FirstHealth’s Cancer Care Fund.

“I wanted to take it one step further, so our breast cancer awareness day has evolved into a month,” said Branden Fein, Director of The Spa at Pinehurst. “We wanted to find another way to give back to our community and support patients with all types of cancer.”

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Wearing Pinehurst proudly

Sometimes, you just never know when or where the Putter Boy is going to show up.

Over the last few weeks, we’ve heard via Twitter and other outlets lately about future NFL Hall-of-Famer Brian Urlacher’s hat of of choice in his appearances on The Golf Channel’s Driver vs. Driver.

On Tuesday night, though, Urlacher – who has visited us here at Pinehurst several times – made sure to confirm it when Wilson Golf asked about it on Twitter:

Watch Driver vs. Driver, and you’ll see the cap better – front and back – to see the Pinehurst logo.


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Thanks, Brian. Next round is on us.

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My letter from Arnold Palmer



Thanks to The Tufts Archives, Pinehurst was able to send this image to Arnold Palmer in April. (Photo copyright Tufts Archives)


You would hear the stories. “He writes everyone back. You’ll get a letter.”

But you don’t believe it. Not at all. Why would Arnold Palmer write a return letter to me?

And that was a prevailing thought even in the good times. It’s no secret over the last few years that Palmer was in declining health. And at the time of my letter, Palmer was 86 years old.

But it’s also why I rushed to write the letter.

The letter accompanied a large framed photograph of Arnold Palmer and his father, Deacon. As part of a project at Pinehurst, I found the photo – a beautiful black and white image of a youthful Arnold standing with his father near the 9th tee of Pinehurst No. 2. The timestamp from the Tufts Archives marked the photo from 1954, making Arnold around 25 years old.

It’s a pure golf image. They stand together, father and son in sweaters over collared shirts, with Deacon looking off and to the left and Arnold staring straight at the camera. Both hold golf clubs. Arnold isn’t smiling, but he isn’t necessarily not smiling, either. It appears, if you gaze at the image long enough, that he may simply be mere moments from breaking into the smile that greeted so many a nervous fan or sportswriter.

In fact, there is another image, near the same spot on the same day, where Palmer and his father are both grinning, Arnold in mid-strut.


When Pinehurst embarked on a year-long project to restore the vintage photos hanging in the historic clubhouse in 2015, I found the father and son photo. It had not been framed and hung in the clubhouse before, but in an instant, I knew it needed to have its home there. It should live in Pinehurst’s clubhouse forever, and it should be next to the famed image of Harvie Ward and Arnold from the 1948 North & South Amateur.

But it was an image I believed Palmer should have as well. Deacon visited Pinehurst regularly in the 1930s and 1940s with a group of golf buddies from their home in Latrobe, Pennsylvania, and their hotel of choice was the Manor Inn. Arnold came on occasion and then attended Wake Forest College in the late 1940s when it was located in the town of Wake Forest, just north of Raleigh. His love of Pinehurst never wavered.

Standing in as a representative of Pinehurst, I sent a copy of the image, enlarged and framed beautifully by Tony Hill, to Palmer. In the letter with it, I wrote:

There were one or two photos, though, that we replaced, and that includes the one we present to you today. In my research at the Archives, I came across this photo of you and your father at the ninth hole of Pinehurst No. 2. It immediately became the highlight of our project, and we’ve positioned it in the hallway adjacent to a vintage photo of you and Harvie Ward at the 1948 North & South Amateur.

Our project has been well received, but no photo has drawn more interest from our guests than this one. Nearly every day, we are fortunate to witness the reactions of our guests to this photo. These moments are what make Pinehurst so special.

Thank you, Mr. Palmer, from all of us at Pinehurst, for your lifelong affection for our home. Few people have meant more to Pinehurst in our storied history than yourself, and your father. It is a story we are blessed to tell, and one we will continue to tell for decades to come.

To say I didn’t hope for a response would be unfaithful. But I didn’t expect one. Those are two very different things, and Mr. Palmer had been ill.

But, dated April 28, 2016, and postmarked May 2 – less than two weeks after I had sent my letter and his photo – came the response.

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My letter from Arnold Palmer. (Click to enlarge)

It reads:

What great memories that photograph of my father and me at Pinehurst brings to me.

We had some wonderful times playing golf and just enjoying life on the trips we made to Pinehurst with a number of Pap’s friends from Latrobe.

Of course, I have been back to Pinehurst countless times since those early days and have many treasured memories of those visits.

I’m pleased to know that the framed photograph is hanging in a prominent place in the clubhouse and thank you very much for sending me the framed copy. It will find a prominent place here in Latrobe.


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Whether Palmer himself dictated, typed or even thought about that response is of no concern to me. He signed it, and while the signature he crafted for so many years to be legible for his legions is written with a shaky hand, it only means that much more.

Pinehurst will never be the same without Arnold Palmer.

Thank God for memories – and photography.


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Legendary Pinehurst caddie Willie McRae to be enshrined in CGA Hall of Fame

With McRae’s fellow caddies and family looking on, Carolinas Golf Association officials make announcement at Pinehurst No. 2

Willie McRae has caddied among the towering longleaf pines of Pinehurst for more than seven decades. On his 10th birthday, his father, also a caddie at Pinehurst, brought Willie to the golf course to work. It spawned a career few could ever hope to replicate.

On Thursday, the Carolinas Golf Association announced McRae, 83, will be enshrined in the CGA Hall of Fame in February. Joining McRae behind the 18th green of Pinehurst No. 2 as fellow caddies and family members surrounded him, the CGA celebrated one of golf’s greatest careers.

“It’s a very proud moment for the Carolinas Golf Association to make this announcement at Pinehurst,” said G. Jackson Hughes Jr., the chairman of the CGA Hall of Fame selection committee. “Willie McRae has meant so much to so many people for so many years here at Pinehurst. It’s a well-deserved award.”

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Legendary Pinehurst caddie Willie McRae sits in the locker room of the Pinehurst clubhouse.

McRae’s legendary time at Pinehurst traces much of the area’s rise in the annals of American golf. He has caddied for five presidents, for celebrities from Mickey Mantle to Michael Jordan and many of golf’s greatest figures, including Donald Ross, Bobby Jones, Gene Sarazen and Sam Snead.

“Willie McRae has meant so much to so many people for so many years here at Pinehurst. It’s a well-deserved award.” -G. Jackson Hughes Jr., CGA official

“I’ve always been thankful to be able to work at a place like Pinehurst,” McRae said. “Everybody’s always been so nice to me. They’ve always made me think I was the important person.”

McRae is one of just two living participants of the 1951 Ryder Cup, which was contested at Pinehurst. He has caddied in several of golf’s greatest championships, ranging from the Ryder Cup to multiple U.S. Opens and U.S Women’s Opens. A great player in his own time, in the 1950s the U.S. Army stationed McRae at Fort Dix instead of shipping him overseas, installing him instead as the captain of the golf team.

“Willie always says that everybody is somebody, that everyone has a right to be treated well,” said Pinehurst President Tom Pashley. “But what we all know is that Willie has always been one of the most important people at Pinehurst.

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“It’s nice to know that with his enshrinement into the Carolinas Golf Hall of Fame, Willie’s picture will be on the Hall of Fame wall in The Carolina Hotel forever. To know that his family will always be able to walk by that photo and see how much Willie has meant to the game of golf is really special.”

McRae’s legacy continues at Pinehurst. McRae’s son, Paul, has been one of the leading instructors of the Pinehurst Golf Academy for more than 20 years, and his grandson, Darick, also caddies on No. 2. Willie McRae’s philosophy is the embodiment of the Pinehurst spirit: “To me,” McRae says, “everybody’s a celebrity. Everybody is special in their unique way.”

The Hall of Fame announcement was a wonderful moment for the McRae family, Darick said.


Willie McRae, center, is joined by (l-r) the CGA’s Walter Todd Sr., CGA Executive Director Jack Nance, Pinehurst Resort President Tom Pashley and CGA Hall of Fame Selection Committee Chairman G. Jackson Hughes Jr. on the 18th green of Pinehurst No. 2. The CGA announced on Thursday that McRae would be enshrined in the Carolinas Golf Association Hall of Fame in February. (Photo by John Gessner)

“It just shows the value of hard work and what it can do for you,” Darick said. “He’s 83 years old and has been caddying for 73 years, and today shows how that hard work pays off.

“It’s his inspiration that keeps me going. Now, I may not be doing it for 73 years, but today was awesome.”

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Win a Pinehurst Resort getaway

It’s been a fun couple of weeks at Pinehurst, both recalling the 1951 Ryder Cup played here as well as the Ryder Cup Wager, which could not have worked out better for Pinehurst. (Thanks, Team USA!)

As one last celebration of this period in Pinehurst history, we’re offering a chance for you to win a golf getaway to Pinehurst. It’s very easy to enter.

We’ll run the contest through Monday and announce the winner next week. You can enter each day, and you get an extra entry every time you share the contest.

Good Luck!


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